It’s been a crazy year full of lots of challenges! But even in the midst of the craziness and all the challenges presented, I still feel as though it was a productive year because of the things I’ve learned along the way. These lessons help me to grow as a person and as a coach. I would like to share these lessons and insights to end this year and start the new year with a clean slate.
Before I share these lessons, I need to preface it by explaining a technique I use with the athletes I work with on how to turn any loss into a victory, or how to turn a challenging situation into one where they can learn and grow from it.
At the end of every game, at the end of every season, and/or after a setback or challenge, I have them ask themselves these three magic questions:
This year has been one for the history books, for sure. All of this quarantining has been a foreign territory for most of us and especially for our kids. Most of the parents I talk to have voiced their concern for their child and how their children are struggling with the emotional challenges that have been caused by the pandemic. The isolation, fears, and doubts are accompanied by irritable outbursts, not to mention the video game addiction that seems to be taking over our children!
It's normal for most parents to become concerned for their child's mental health, although the pandemic has taken it to a whole new level.
However, the oxygen mask analogy comes into play here. As parents, it is natural to try to take care of our children, often putting our own needs in the background. By doing that, we end up not taking care of ourselves or them. You need to put your own mask on first or you will be no good for your kids. We...
Hey Parents! I know it's often difficult to know when to step in and when to butt out when your child is an athlete. It’s hard to know how hard you should push them, should you help them with skill development, how best to support them, what hidden messages you are sending and what you should and should and shouldn’t say after they lose.
We have found that parents' behaviors and attitudes are almost always the key difference between successful and unsuccessful athletic experiences. Parents should focus their energy on areas where they can support their athlete.
One of those areas is helping your child develop and implement their PreCompetition Routine to achieve THEIR Peak Performance.
Consistent preparation leading up to a competition is a major contributor to your student-athlete getting consistent results. This consistent preparation...
In the last blog post I discussed the importance of consistency and how it is the one thing that separates the very best in every sport from the rest. The best athletes in the world are able to perform at a consistently high level day in and day out, week in and week out for months and even years. How can you learn to be consistent like the Pro's?
The Inverted U Theory is based on the premise that athletes can attain a state of mental readiness that will allow them to perform at their peak on a consistent basis. The inverted U explains how some people need “bang on your chest" (often football or rugby) type preparation while others need a “quiet isolation and or meditation" (Chess). Most athletes fall somewhere in the middle. The key is to find your individual “FLOW” zone.
The graphic above depicts the "sweet spot" for optimal performance. The purpose of a pre-competition routine is...
I have worked with athletes at all levels of sport, from juniors to collegians to pros and Olympians, and a major area that I help them to achieve is consistency in their competitive performances. So many athletes have big swings in their performances from great one week to mediocre, to even lousy the next week.
In this two-part blog post, I will first discuss the importance of consistency in everything you do. Part 2 will focus on bringing that same level of consistency into preparing for your competition and how to construct your routine.
Consistency is the one thing that separates the very best in every sport from the rest. The best athletes in the world are able to perform at a consistently high level day in and day out, week in and week out for months and even years.
Performing at a consistently high level under the most challenging conditions is the goal toward which I believe all athletes, whatever your ability or sport, should aspire to attain. ...
Many athletes dream of being the best, but few have what it takes to BE the best. What separates the best from the rest? The best isn't always the strongest, fastest, or the one in the best shape. Studies have shown that "the best" is almost always the one that thinks he/she is the best. Champions almost always have what I call a Gold Mind. The mind of a winner. The one with the fewest doubts and the biggest belief in themselves.
How does someone develop this attitude? It doesn't just happen. It takes work, lots of work. Developing a Gold Mind is knowing in your heart that you have done everything you can to be the best. Knowing that you have worked harder in all aspects of your sport. Gold Minds are not a natural quality in any one person. Like anything else you have to develop this skill. Some key factors that I have found that work to develop a Gold Mind are: